Everything you wanted to know about Milking

In a relationship between a man and a woman, in general, it becomes evident that one of the partners should naturally seek to settle in a position of “submission”, giving in most of the time to the will and whims of the other. The mystery, apparently, is in how and in what intensity this occurs.
When the side that “bears accounts” and obeys is the male, the secret lies in its internal anatomy and not in its member or, as many others think, in its size. Many Dominators know how to explore this aspect, obtaining an exceptional volume of pleasure in their relationships, while others insist on taking a much more complex and arduous path, adopting inflexible conducts, of inadequate content for the submissive man. The latter, convinced not only in an ordinary way, by the brute force, to assume his new responsibilities and social role but also, intimidated to a high degree, becomes unable to dedicate himself with intensity, naturality and devotion to the pleasure of his Dona.
Through the skillful and constant employment of deep anal stimulation (or simply “milking”), however, the Dominator will not only have access to true and voluntarious male submission, but will re-orient the slave’s most basic instincts. He will raise his gratitude and willingness to serve the highest point of the devotional scale, and may be used as a skillful instrument of pleasure for it, rather than being a simple and resigned object of humiliation. The qualitative difference is enormous. And once he is indoctrinated by these principles, most of the notion of pride, egocentrism, macho rudeness, as well as much of the excessive concern and appreciation of the penis, quickly disappears. In this way, he learns who he really is, what his true needs are, and how inappellatly superior to his own, the needs of his Lady. Finally, he will surrender to his Master of heart, without reservation or resistance.
But you must be wondering: What is “milking” anyway? Some think it is the repeated and imposing action of masturbation in the servant to the point where he loses his ability to ejaculate. Others think it is the continuous stimulation of the servant to the threshold of ejaculation, when the stimulus is interrupted so as not to allow it to come true, so that it will soon start all over again, subjecting the slave to more and more excitement and leaving him frustrated for never getting relief. Both methods described produce a tiny margin of control of the servant by his Dona. If it wants more effective control over its submissive, a more efficient method and longer lasting results, such as milking, should be employed.
The true “milking” denies the submissive one of the things he loves most to do: expel the essence of masculinity into a wild and explosive attitude. And this impediment is obtained through the skillful violation of its most vulnerable and intimate orifice. In a nutshell, milking is the controlled stimulation of the submissive prostate, promoting a “non-ruptive” discharge, a “soft” and “slow” flow instead of sudden ejaculation, notably because this flow is not organic like ejaculation. It's like a maddening, constant fluid spill that drains the male essences from the submissive.
In milking the Dominador avoids the full pleasure of the slave keeping it on the level of excitement that she deems appropriate. He, in turn, feels well stimulated but all the intensity of the stimulus is controlled by her, which makes him totally submissive to his Dona.
This is also preventing male pleasure, but in a very distinct way. In this case your inner sexuality is manipulated to the point where servitude due to it becomes your only pleasure, which will transform you into a worshiper of your Queen, permanently devoted, applied and unreserved.
The prostate is a gland, the size of an almond, which weighs about 20 grams and is located at the base of the bladder and involves the initial portion of the urethra. Its function is to produce a part of the fluid that forms semen. Easily accessible by the rectum of the man, it is located about 6cm from the anal orifice, i.e., at the distance equivalent to the length of the index finger (see figure).
Milking is the constant and repeated stimulation of the prostate and neighboring area (seminal and ampula vesicle). Continuous prostate massage forces a slow seed discharge through the urethra and penis. The result of this procedure produces such a strong impression in the mind of the submissive that, in an inappealable way, he is able and willing to be a sexual slave to the woman who performs it.
Massage can be done with your fingers or by a dildo (vibrator). The fingers are better for stimulation, however the dildos work very well and still assist in the impersonality of action, ensuring that, more quickly, the slave completely loses inhibition and surrenders to massage. With the training and constancy of milking practice the results of this will be improved, thus obtaining total servitude and anal control of the submissive.
The best dildos are those between 15 and 20 cm long (6 to 8 inches). Dildos with internal vibrators can, depending on servo sensitivity, potentiate the effect. Dildos with ribs, bumps or some kind of texture are always more efficient for milking than fully cylindrical or smooth.
Unlike masturbation, which results in explosive orgasm (ejaculation), intensely massaging the prostate is neither explosive nor extremely pleasurable for the slave. Massaging the prostate is “to milk” the servant in a slow process that will drain part of his fluids as well as drain all resistance to the power and authority of his Dona. Milking is, in most cases, hypnotically pleasurable but by no means compares to the pleasure of ejaculating, whether the slave masturbates or when he is masturbated.
During the milking, the liquids flow in slow drops. Differently from conventional masturbation, while stimulating the prostate it is necessary to “squeeze” the penis, in the direction of its base to the gland, in order to assist the expulsion of fluids.
If prostate stimulation is performed through a strap-on (dildo attached to a special belt dressed by Dona), the fluids, as soon as they are extracted, should be rubbed on the lips and nostrils of the submissive. Such practice greatly assists the slave's reconditioning process, as it reinforces in his mind the connection of ideas between the discreet pleasure of massage, the odor and taste of his fluids, submission to his Dona and anal rape.
Whenever penetrated into his anus by a dildo and, in order to optimize prostate stimulation, the submissive should help his Dona to keep the dildo permanently in contact with her gland, bending her body and positioning herself according to maximizing its action on the prostate and surrounding area. Evidently, stimulation will be greatly increased if the servo slightly moves his hips in various directions. With practice the submissive will lose inhibition of rolling in the dildo of his Dona. From this moment on, not only does his Dona penetrate him into his buttock but also he self-stimulates himself and, erotically “dance” to the glory of his Dominator.
Another thing about milking is that the slow dripping of the slave fluids always makes him only partially satisfied and, thanks to that, keeps him constantly sexually frustrated. In deep stimulation of the prostate the submissive has, all the time, the feeling of being on the verge of ecstasy, on the threshold of his orgasm, and this makes him continue, rolling on the dildo, introducing and withdrawing this faster and faster, hoping to ejaculate and satisfy himself. Blind by the enchantment of his Lady and, bewitched by the skillful manipulation of her, he insists, groans, surrenders, trembles, but cannot fully satisfy himself.
This is wonderful for the Dominators because, in most cases, after a conventional ejaculation the submissives lose much of their subservience, they become slow and insolent, causing temporary loss of control by the Dona. With milking it doesn't happen. In place of an intense orgic spout, only a few drops of male fluids are extracted by the skillful hands of the Dominator. In this way, the slave is never completely sexually satisfied, remaining permanently frustrated, submissive, obedient and attentive. He, too, will beg and beg even to tears for his lady to continue to penetrate him with the dildo, for thus he will have the feeling of coming closer and closer to the condition that will allow him to ejaculate. However, even if with this stimulation he can reach the point of ejaculation, it will occur without the typical orgasm sensations of conventional ejaculation.
The feeling experienced by the submissive with milking is somewhat like the one that a woman feels during caresses, kisses and oral sex fast and incomplete in her clitoris, the kind that arouse much desire but in the background are not pleasant in itself, especially when interrupted. Evidently, if clitoris stimulation is well performed and performed without interruption, the woman will reach orgasm in a violent and total way. In milking, however, as long as his excitement is kept below the ejaculation point, i.e. not stimulating the penis or promoting erection, the Dominator may prolong the manipulation of her anus for as long as she wishes. This will cause him to beg for more and more stimulation, in the vain hope that it may provide him with the violent and explosive orgasm he desires. However, the cruel and delicious truth is that he will never be satisfied, not in the way and with the intensity he would like. Unable to satisfy himself and believing that his Dona is the only source of pleasure he has, the slave will willingly submit himself to his Dona's feet, indefinitely subject to her whims.
With the practice of milking, too, the slave is more and more able to grace and satisfy his Dona, as well as becomes more willing to submit to the extremes of his domination.
The Dominador who keeps the submissive always anally stimulated, conveniently “bought” and prevented from performing through a complete ejaculation, will soon see him beg for the opportunity to feel filled by it. In these sessions he will be little by little conditioned by the gentle and striking sensations of the milking to discover that, allowing him to be penetrated and used by his Dona, offering this his most intimate orifice, is the most sincere and intense way he now has to grace and revere her.
Then his Queen will provoke him, making him very excited but, denying him a complete orgasm, the “coach”, conditioning him to his whims, stimulating him to desire to feel his anus filled by her strap-on, and making him feel his penis lose more and more its primary sexual function, turning him into a erect and wet monument of fluids, maximum expression of his unreserved desire for his Dona.
She can also, if she wishes, condition you to continually desire to be bound or immobilized, love to be beaten and whipped, as well as plead for proving her own male fluids and begging for being penetrated and sexually abused for long periods.
His Lady may also sit on his face as he penetrates him firmly with a dildo, stimulating his gland and forcing him to satisfy her orally, in his vagina and anus, rubbing his organs in his mouth, lips and nose, for as long as she determines or, until he acquires the ability to provide her with repeated and multiple orgasms.
Another recommended practice is to fix the dildo somewhere, such as the back of a chair, making use of either the strap itself or another method and then to lay the chair on the side of the bed. Then, placing the submissive of four on the bed, penetrate it with dildo, while the Dona must and position herself in front of her. The Dominator there may choose to lie on her back or, like her slave, remain on four. In both cases the goal is to force the slave to stimulate his own anus through the dildo, while he must orally worship the most coveted parts of his Dona's body. This is an ideal position for the servant to worship and demonstrate devotion to his Dominator. And if this particular one is one of those who enjoys having their holes long kissed, licked and worshipped, she will know, in these positions, to surrender herself to the most dreamed pleasures. Meanwhile he, stimulated by the action of the dildo on his anus and, rolling on this, will keep his tongue and mouth moved solely for the purpose of satisfying it A riding whip, in this case, is indicated to keep the hips of the submissive always moving, ensuring the rhythm of stimulation in the prostate.
Being penetrated by the fixed dildo and, orally satisfying its lady, the submissive has the impression of being used by two Simultaneously dominant, a fact that stirs up his libido, besides enhancing the humiliation of the slave, reducing his self-esteem and ability to resist the commands of his Dona.
Soon he will become more docile than a lapdog and, if so his lady wishes, he will not deny her anything, submitting to beatings, beatings in various ways, various humiliations and all the things she demands, for as long as she deems convenient.
The Dominator's only limitations are her own imagination and physical disposition. She can go through Milking sessions with other physical activities, so that she gradually renews her vigor, muscle tone and redesigns the contours of her sensuality.
Acting with determination the Dominador may condition her slave to the point where he constantly submits to his orders and requests without, either, employing any form of direct stimulation on his penis. Only and only by anal stimulation, made with dildo or fingers. At times, until the simple whisper of a promise of anal penetration, the submissive will immediately put himself on his knees at her feet, happy, with his ass up and his penis dripping with anxiety for satisfying her lady.
Because of the submissive nature of men to emerge more intensely when they cross states of sexual frustration, it is recommended that this method of domination and control be applied throughout the time. Remember, keeping the submissive in a permanent state of desire, preventing his complete satisfaction and, stimulating him to, uninhibited and voluntaryly, satisfy his Dona are the ultimate goal. And, as shown above, milking is, despite other techniques, the most suitable way to achieve these goals.
Below is a testimony of a submissive who tells us his experience of being dominated and enslaved by his Dona through milking techniques, prohibition of full orgasm and anal abuse.
“ Though I am used by my own Owner in many ways, currently milking is by far what I want most intensely. At first the process was slow, but now just feel the beginning of the massage so my penis starts dripping and pouring fluids over and over. I love to feel the drops flow slowly. I really like your flavors and aromas, too. Anyway, I love staying at my lady's disposal.
When the milking is done using a dildo there is a better stimulation of the prostate and I assist this action “climbing” the dildo, forcing it to penetrate me deeply, so that its entire surface of the dildo touches and stimulates my gland and its surrounding area. Then, when Mistress Ramona enters me, I swing my body, wiggling and wriggling my hips like a little bitch, thus keeping the dildo deeply installed on my anus and, of course, exactly on my prostate. This way my ass becomes like a vagina, my prostate gains the sensitivity of a male clitoris, while and I see my penis have less and less function.
For now, my penis is almost boring to me. He belongs entirely to my lady and remains ready for all uses she wishes to make of him. Tie him up, lock him up with staples, drip sail on him and flog him are some of the activities that Mistress Romana reserves for him.
My lady is also interested in getting you excited. When she allows me to kneel in front of her and devotedly massage her feet, for times she gently stretches her legs, she slowly asks me to remove her tummy with her teeth, thus exposing her wonderful and carefully shaved vagina. Then she slowly introduces one of her fingers and herself and begins to satisfy herself by observing, content, the stiff penis of her slave, silent and unquestionable witness of her seduction power over her submissive. I go on massaging, kissing and caressing your feet, feeling successive waves of pleasure sweeping your body. After that, she caresses my penis and my testicles with her feet, intensifying my erection.
If my full ejaculation (which is very rare) is allowed, I must do it without touching myself, depositing all the semen expelled on its charming feet. Soon after the ejaculation, my lady will allow me to wipe your feet with my mouth and lips.
Otherwise, Mistress Ramona will massage my prostate and collect all the fluids in one cup. Then, by depositing the contents of the cup into a strap-on, she will delight in watching me lick all the fluids of my manhood.
I now find myself in such a state of conditioning that, if I hear my lady talk about penetrating me with a dildo or with her strap-on, I get immediately excited.
When she violates and abuses my anus I wish very much to satisfy her, to grace her and to venerate her, and to receive her approval.
As for positions, I love them all. However, some are better for prostate stimulation at the beginning of massage and others are more suitable for when I am already close to expel fluids.
I can't resist when I get on all fours and I feel Mistress Ramona penetrate me from behind with the strap-on. In this position I can feel your body rubbing in my ass. My lady also loves this position, because she can collect in her hands the little drops that pour from my penis and rub them on my face, making me feel like a real bitch.
My Queen also loves to know how I feel letting her penetrate my anus deeply only for her delight or, if I feel like a prostitute when she lubricates, dilates and explores my orifice with her fingers.
I also appreciate it when she lays me on her back and ties my legs open to the bedside. This position, where I am totally at your mercy, is very favorable to prostate stimulation. Finally, I like it even better when she lies on her back and allows me to ride her strap-on, face or back to her. When I turn my back, my lady can appreciate the action of your strap-on on my ass. On these occasions she holds firmly my hips and, by pushing them rhythmically up and down, sees her strap-on penetrate me ever faster, ever deeper, while I desperately try to get a definitive and complete orgasm, which never occurs.
Whatever position my Queen penetrates me, it is indescribable the feeling I have when the “glande” of the dildo violates me and she initiates the movements of going and coming. She particularly likes to tease me, shove me in, take it out, and make it stick only the tip of the dildo in my anus. It completely takes my mind off my mind, making my whole body tremble and vibrate, but it does not relieve my pleasure.
She says it's very exciting to enjoy my orifice involving her dildo, opening and closing, like the lips of a greedy and insatiable mouth, while I melt, moaning. Of course, if she does this combined with some clips on my nipples or the job of a nine-wire whip, the moaning will be much more audible.
She has already noted that this conditioning actually works because, after his introduction, my sexual desire and my needs were reduced and, with that, my natural male aggressiveness was channeled only to serve her. I, too, feel more willing, attentive and obedient to all her needs, desires and whims, remaining at my Lady's disposal to serve her fully, regardless of the nature or content of her request.
I live to serve her and she, on the other hand, serves me. So we have the best of worlds!