I like to be divided. So does he.

How can I love my husband and have a boyfriend at the same time? Simple: we both understand that love is not a prerequisite for sex and vice versa. With him it's sex and love; with others it's just sex. There's not one man in the world I admire and look up to more than him. Yes, I love him more than anything. He satisfies me, fulfills me, does everything for me. My family is perfect. My husband allows me to have others because it excites him, because it amuses him. It's like any other fantasy. And I do it because I love sex, I like men, and I fulfill my man's desire. If I can make fun of another without resentment? Totally ! I am with another with my husband's full consent and let nothing affect my love for him. And besides, I know that's what he wants and that I'm a woman; I have desire and passion like anyone else. I don't feel anything embarrassing about my husband. He gives me a lot of leeway to do everything. You are indeed a wonderful man. What gives me more security is the fact that it's remarkable how he falls in love more and more, especially when I have a date. He really loves and cherishes this condition; and I, of course, feel very happy to give this pleasure to him. Why, then, should you be embarrassed? No, not at all. We're a couple in love, enjoying life, no secrets and totally complicit. The great advantage of the Hotwife fantasy is that you can try different men. But having a steady boyfriend is also very good. My husband and I trust it, we go out more often, it's less of a programming problem, etc. When you've gone out with a certain number of lovers, on average, you start to have a good list of contacts, and you can then go out with each one again, or with the one you liked best, and so on. A phone call in the middle of the week can get everything done very quickly. If I want to go out with a boyfriend tomorrow, for example, I can. I talk to my husband, he supports me, I call some of our "friends" that we've dated, and that's it. It's marked. As you make new friends, things become easier. How do we deal with that? It's easy. We're extremely complicit with each other. We have no secrets; we talk about everything; we speak openly. He tells me what he likes, and I do it without the slightest guilt, because I know that what we do is what we choose to do; and it's all about us. We belong to each other, along with everything we think and do. We are one, and we live for each other's happiness. How do I deal with it socially? I know our practice isn't quite what we consider conventional for a normal couple. So our lifestyle is a secret, and we keep it away from our family and our work. We're not here to be judged. There's no whore or horn here. We're normal people who have the courage to live out our dreams and fantasies; we don't depend on it. When and how do I get other men? Whenever I find someone interesting. Of course the Internet provides everything. They offer themselves on dating sites, but nothing prevents a close encounter during a vacation trip, a weekend at the beach or at the mall. When we see that he can roll, my husband stays behind so that I can be approached. I dress more provocatively than common wives and wear characteristic accessories, such as always showing my feet well made and with the correct ornaments, such as an anklet on my right foot and one or two rings. All this allows good and experienced lovers to recognize a free wife for sex. I usually go on my dates alone. What if my husband doesn't want any more? Well, in that case, it's not his decision anymore. It's okay that the original fantasy is my husband's, but after I've accepted and experimented, hanging out with other guys has become a delightful practice, which I don't want to leave anymore. I want to continue to be divided.